Archive for November 2007

Not coping

Nov 28th, 2007 | By | Category: Ministry

Tom was a good friend to me. Thirty years my senior, he was an avuncular figure who kept open the little church where he and his wife and a small number of others worshipped Sunday by Sunday. Tom always smiled, always laughed, always had an encouraging word. Tom was getting better. The day he was told that the tests were clear, he waltzed his wife around the hospital ward.

A few days after the good news, Tom died. It was a cold, bleak winter’s Saturday evening in Belfast and Tom …